Every year, we Filipinos flock to cemeteries and memorial parks to honor our dearly departed during Undas (All Saints’ and All Souls’ Days). It’s one of the most heartfelt national traditions that serves as a reminder that love always outlives loss. Whether you’re a balikbayan, a curious traveler, or simply gearing up for your yearly visit, here are Top Five essential tips to make your trip meaningful, safe, and stress-free.
1. Go Early — or Go Late
Avoid the Undas rush by visiting before November 1 and 2, or late in the evening when the crowd has thinned. You’ll find more parking, cooler weather, and quieter moments for prayer. Also remember that crowds attract pickpockets. Leave valuables at home and carry only essentials in a small sling bag or waist pouch. Also best to wear light, modest clothing and comfy shoes. Avoid flashy attire — you’re there to pay respects, not make a fashion statement.
2. Prepare a “Cemetery Survival Kit”
Pack essentials: candles, flowers, matches or lighters, fans, water, tissues, wet wipes, garbage bags, and a flashlight. Don’t forget umbrellas — November weather can be unpredictable. Bring your own water bottles and light snacks. Some cemeteries allow picnics, but keep it simple — think sandwiches, simple rice bowls or hand-held goodies. But remember, before heading home, clean your spot — collect trash, extinguish candles, and leave the area tidy. It’s a final act of respect not just for your loved ones, but for the resting place of others.
3. Bring Flowers, Not Fire Hazards
Choose fresh flowers over synthetic ones. They’re biodegradable, beautiful, and safe. If you bring candles, place them in glass containers to avoid accidental fires.
4. Keep an Eye on Kids and the Elderly
Undas can get chaotic. Assign a buddy system, write your contact number on a child’s wristband, and make sure elders have a place to sit and rest. Bring portable stools if you must.
5. Respect Cemetery Rules
Many cemeteries now prohibit alcohol, gambling, loud music, or overnight stays. Check regulations in advance and comply so you don’t rant or get into an argument. Rules are also there to keep the atmosphere solemn and orderly.
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 Christian Alcantara
Christian Alcantara

